Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Blog Decision

I put up a poll in a previous post to see what some followers thought about me either keeping one blog or creating a seperate one for the pregnancy. Here are the results:
After much thought I have decided to journal about this current pregnancy here on this blog. This was a difficult decision because I know I have readers who are at different stages of their grief. I recognize that reading about pregnancy may be too painful at this time for them. I did not read blogs that contained pregancy news or updates until I was pregnant myself. After announcing my pregnancy here I lost two followers. I understand.

As I stated in a previous post, I find it too difficult to seperate the grief of losing Janessa & the emotions that come from being pregnant. The two are very intertwined. Pregnancy after loss is an emotional & stressful journey. I find that journaling through my grief helps me tremendously & I can only hope it can do the same for me regarding this pregnancy.

4 comments:

Jill said...

I think you need to do whatever feels right to you. You said it so perfectly, the two are very intertwined. xx

Lisette said...

Just like Jill said, you need to do what feels right to you. I will follow you either way, I am not going anywhere. Wishing you the best my friend. Hope you are doing well.

Heather said...

I feel the same - it is impossible to separate the two.

xx

Jill said...

Bless you Malory, I have thought the same too, what do I do? But I think I will keep them together. I dont know if it was a combination of the music on your site and or your post plus all the emotions I have within me now, but I just cried, & still am continuing to as I write. May you be Blessed , and I will follow you along with your journey, I thank you for everything too Malory! Youre a beautiful woman!

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